Wednesday, October 29, 2008

The Latest

My tutor is one of my favorite people in the entire world. Thank you Rotary for your impeccable system. I've been having minor difficulties with my family situation, so I went to my tutor, Giorgio and his wife Valeria. We talked through them and found a solution. Giorgio also said that if I ever just need a weekend away I can stay with them. He'll even take me up to his house in Como. (Yes, he really does go to the same golf club as George Clooney. And right now Giorgio is in Rome for an important meeting with the new pope- he has a photo of himself with the last one on his mantel. Also the President of Czech Rep. wants Giorgio to be on the Italian Consulate, I think. So he's going to Czech and is going to see if I can come too. I said to him "Giorgio, You're a big deal!" and he says "No, you should talk to my wife. She is much better. And all of this *gesturing to his house, etc* is not important. You come into this world with nothing, and you leave it with nothing. The only thing that lasts is the love in the hearts of your friends and family") So Giorgio is great. And now I hope that my own family dynamic will be a lot smoother these next two months. After I talked with him, I went out with his daughter Ludovica on her vespa to have dinner with her two cousins. It was nice, they have a beautiful dog, they were really friendly, and we all made fools of ourselves with a kareoke machine.

Also, because of all these Italian protests/festivities I will not be going back to school until Monday, and it's Wednesday so you KNOW I'm happy about that one. I baked my class chocolate chip cookies and brought in a lot of different candies to wish everyone and good vacation and and Happy Halloween! I'm still not sure what I'll be doing for the next few days, but I'm pretty sure a daytrip to Como is on the agenda, as is finding a horror movie/cinema. We'll see. I will be sleeping in tomorrow, no doubt about it. As for now, I have a lesson in an hour, so I better get myself together.

I love you all!
Grace

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Photos!








OK, so some of these are obviously of La Scala, the theatre house here in Milan. I'm pretty sure I wasn't allowed to take photos- so to get the full gravity of the situation you should google it, because I had to sneak these and I don't think they portay the absolute magnificence of the place. The big box with the fancy chairs that you see, is meant for guests of honor- like the Queen of England. The fiat 500 is officially my dream car. The other shots are just photos I took walking around near my school.

Monday, October 20, 2008

rapidamente

I'm about to go to the Scala in less than an hour. My last post I wrote last night but didn't get around to actually posting it until today. I just wanted to let you know that today has already been a great day, because I have only spoken in Italian- and I have talked A LOT because I had this huge conversation with the computer room guy and then I had lunch with Vanessa so I have really been a chatterbox. Some headache medicine wouldn't hurt- but I feel pretty happy. Vanessa sits next to me in school also and we are always writing notes so I write in Italian and she corrects my grammar. She says she has no problem understanding what I mean, but that my structure and grammar needs work. I know there is a long way to go, but for a month and a half I am feeling rather accomplished. I want there to be more and more days like today because I know that I am improving the more headaches I get ;). So Vanessa and I are going to try to find at least 2 things to do together a week, whether it is to see an art exhibition or to have lunch or to poke around in shops she knows. Today she showed me a store that I loved. She noticed how much I love color and it was mega cute. I think that time with her, plus the minimum of 3 lessons I have after school a week, will be a pleasant way of making sure my Italian keeps growing.

OK, I want some tea and medicine before I go to La Scala. Photos later.

Love, Grace

p.s. Thank you for commenting! I do read them and I do appreciate it all!

Finalmente

Not write for one whole week?! How dare I? Well, it wasn’t intentional, darlings. I’ve just been as mad as a hatter with everything I’ve been doing. I’ll try to give you the highlights of the week and some more interesting facts I might not have mentioned before about life here in Italy. The differences are everywhere and I want to make sure I write them down before they become too commonplace for me so that I don’t even notice them.

First of all, Monza: Now this is no diss to any Rotarian or Formula 1 fan- but I just don’t dig car races. They aren’t my thing. I watched Formula 1 with my host dad before on the television, and at least you stay with the cars and always know what’s going on, but these race tracks aren’t just like circles and you can’t see it all at once. So basically you are sitting in some bleachers and every few minutes a car goes by. So I wasn’t thrilled- but I didn’t really need to be because I met up with all the other exchange students from the whole region and I hadn’t seen them all together since the week I got here. It was a lot of fun, and I also really like the coordinator guy, and he is always making his way around talking to us and generally being a really cool smiley guy.
Sunday I took a bike ride with Marco and Daniele out of the city to the neighboring village of Marimondo. I think that’s how it is spelled. It was something like a 16 mile ride, which felt really good 1) because even if I walk everywhere here- I never really get my heart rate up without sports in school and a gym to go to. And 2) The weather was amazing and we escaped the city to see actually country-like horizons. Once we got to the village I met up with Marina and we went into this really old historic church where the monks lived back in the day to see a really amazing concert of this duet- one lady on harp, and another guy playing a sort of exotic guitar that I have never heard of before. I met some friends of the family too. They all seem to be teachers! It was nice.
This week at school was significantly better, because I felt like I was actually getting somewhere with the English teacher who is helping me set up my schedule. I t took a good bit of me figuring out things on my own, but eventually we both came together with the possibilities and nailed down a functioning ‘orario’. I’ll try to write it here. I have a lot of self-study blocks. Too many, I think. I can use these to do all of my homework for my lessons and school, but I’m hoping to fill some of them with online courses about religions or history or some hybrid of the two. Like, I know what the beginning of America was like- but can I get in on the beginning of anything else? It’d be cool if, you know- when I’m in Europe I understand more of it’s history and the movement of its cultures. I feel like there are such huge gaps in my knowledge of history AND religion. Coming here makes me oh too aware. I don’t even care about getting credit for school, I just wanna know. I seriously find it fascinating and I’d rather spend my free hours figuring out the origin of Buddhism than checking my facebook.

So anyway. My schedule as of now.
There are five lessons each day, one hour each.

Monday: Art History, Religion (maybe), Self Study, Self Study, Physics
Tuesday: Italian, Philosophy (3rd yr.), Philosophy (5th yr.), Self Study, Self Study
Wednesday: German, German, Italian, Italian, Philosophy (5th yr.)
Thursday: Italian, English, Religion, Philosophy (5th yr.), Self Study
Friday: Self Study, English, German, Physics, Philosophy (3rd yr.)
Saturday: Philosophy (3rd yr.), German, Self Study, Self Study, History

I actually feel pretty lucky because not all schools go out of their way to help the exchange students like mine does. You have to understand, the whole class has the exact same schedule. They stay together for YEARS with the same people. They stay in the same room. They do not go anywhere for different lessons to see different students and professors. So really, it is quite difficult for it to be arranged for me to do so. And now I don’t have to take things like Latin, gym, or their math I did a long time ago, or French, or biology which I also already did.
OK, what else this week? Oh, there are protests in Milan about transportation and the Education system and lots of students and teachers go to these so it is pretty pointless going to school because like 5 people are there, so I’ve gotten out of school twice this year already and they say there is a big protest soon in a couple weeks. There was one this week and it was great because I went to school- figured out it was a protest day since like nobody was there- went to Jody’s house which is close and we made nutella crepes which is like breakfast for God. Kylee came too and we watched The Three Musketeers. Can you tell I like protest days? I do know what exactly they are protesting about but it is kind of complicated and I don’t feel like explaining it right now because I am already writing a lot. If you are super interested- write a comment about it and I explain it in another post if desired.
Also- fun fact. There are espresso machines in the schools, and they do not cost 1 euro like they do in the cafes, but like 30 cents and they are just as good! I love love love espresso. These machines also give you hot chocolate, lattes, machiattos, etc.
My philosophy teacher of the 3rd year is my favorite teacher here. I haven’t met the other philosophy teacher yet, since I only just started my schedule (I get extra philosophy J). But the one in my original class- 3LD- is very fun to watch. I say watch because he is entertaining just like television. Or like television muted. Maybe not that bad, but he speaks crazy fast so it’s hard to catch the meaning but he gestures so wildly one day he is going to fall out of his chair. And he tells these stories/jokes which I of course don’t get, but he laughs so hard and it’s nice to see him laugh. He also wears the same outfit all week long (or longer), which creates suspense for what he will wear next. This is what happens when you do not comprehend the subject matter. You find other things to observe.
Also, whenever they translate his stories for me it comes out like this “He said that he went to a seminar with his friend and they were dancing with everyone and his friend went crazy and hit a monk.” Or this “There was a beautiful man and a woman fell in love with him and she gave him one of her houses to be living in. He is living in dis house but he was sad and wanted to kill hisself, and so he has tried but it did not work. And the woman came and asked him why he is sad and he said that he was very happy and did not want to kill hisself and so she left and then the man went and stole the neighbor’s cat and ran away and nobody never saw him again.”
And this is why I like this class.
Also this week I made Mexican food for my family and some guests. I went to hear an amazingly beautiful choir of mountain singers. Alpine culture. Gorgeous. I also saw an exhibition about Galileo.
Fun Facts:

The grocery store down the street is jalapeno-less.

I found out my school has a computer lab and they seriously have a guy in there just to chill with the computers and book classes for lab time.

Milan makes me both appreciate fashion more, and realize how unimportant it is. I like the way people dress here better than at home. It is more elegant, and simple, and I think I could definitely adjust with no complaints. But it can also get more extravagant here- and when I see some really expensive and severe looking high-heels I don’t understand. It’s not like you are in American where you walk to your CAR to go to work, you walk everywhere here. I would seriously die if I wore some of the shoes here. At times, Milan feels much more concentrated on image.

I feel so much more patriotic here. Maybe it just happens when you leave your country. At home, I didn’t really feel the need to proclaim my love for my country. It kind of just came with living there and being all American doing American things. But here, well- it’s not America. And when I appreciate the differences between my own country and the rest of the world, naturally I get a lil’ red white n’ blue running through my veins. I really do feel proud to be an American, whatever situation we are in as a nation, because it is MY nation.

I want boots and scarves and coats and purses.

Today I saw the oldest church bell tower in the city of Milan. I believe they said it was from the first century. Maybe I should google that, because some things gets lost in translation as my philosophy teacher’s stories prove.

I adore the 80 yr old grandmother. I think she can be a little needy and this can irritate the family, who sees them all the time. But I’m not used to having a grandparent around all the time- especially not an 80 yr old one, so I don’t mind keeping her company and helping her with her seatbelt or walking slow with her. She is rather frail and she loves to kiss.

I ran this week!

I want to find a team sport. I start yoga this week I hope. Tomorrow is a Monday which makes me happy, because as you can see on my schedule, it’s a quite easy day.

OK BASTA.
More than enough for now.
I will write soon, because tomorrow I am going to La Scala which is the most important theatre house in Milan, everyone says it’s beautiful so I’ll try to include some photos!

Ciao!
Grace

Friday, October 10, 2008

I sure am glad...

that tomorrow is Saturday. This week will not make the list of "Grace's Fav Moments". I had Italian lessons 4 days in a row (after school). I couldn't seem to catch up on sleep and I was so exhausted. Does exhaustion come in waves? Because sometimes I feel fine and then other times I just want to stay in my bed and hibernate. Also, in America I usually have one day to sleep in- but since they have school on Saturday AND they attend church every week, I've had to adjust. And I guess it doesn't help that they eat so late here. My family eats pretty late back home, but it's also not as important to eat together so if I really wanted to go to bed early I could always fix myself something and conk out before they even all get home. This didn't seem like an option here, but yesterday I came home from my lesson and I felt so dead that I called my host mom and asked her if I could just make myself something. She said of course, and I was in bed by SEVEN. That's right, thats eleven blissful hours of sleep. And today I had energy! I think my host family thinks I'm sick, though. It's kind of funny- when I take a nap or get in my pjs and have my bear Marina always gets me to take my temperature (which they do under the arms, btw) and I'm not sick. I'm just 1) an exchange student that spends her day reading the dictionary and stretching my brain in weird ways and 2) someone who really likes to sleep.

But tomorrow, as I have stated, is Saturday. I'll be going to the second Rotary event of the year, which is at Monza. I'm not exactly sure what it's about but I think it has something to do with fast racecars.

Ciao!
Grace

Monday, October 6, 2008

Let me catch you up.

I'll try to summarize the past couple days.

Saturday was Festa Americana! Got together with a few other rotary exchangers and we went grocery shopping and proceeded to make the most glorious burritos and chocolate chip cookies EVER. I don't think I've ever appreciated homemade salsa more. Honestly, it tasted like home. We stayed up late, rather excited with our ability to comprehend one another. Sunday I left early for church, and had an afternoon meeting "friends of the family". I was amazed at how much Italian I comprehended on Sunday. There was a lot of talking and I kept up with most of it. I passed out and when I awoke this morning I wanted to stay in bed all day. It was so cold! I need to invest in some SERIOUS SOCK-AGE. So I dragged myself to school where I did a lot of daydreaming (did I just use all of my brain juices on Sunday or what?). I came home for lunch, had a two hour nap, and went to my Italian lesson. I was less-dead than normal at the end and in a pretty good mood. Tonight I discovered the miracle of brocolli with pasta.

Bed soon.
Grace

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Responsibility

So, I'm trying to do the right thing. There is really no point in coming to Italy (or anywhere else) to be an exchange student if all you are going to do is hang out with Americans. Now, I'm a big supporter of the couple times a week- venting, speaking english, talking fast, making (and understanding) jokes, and generally getting your grove back with fellow exchange students. It really does save me after a low day. But I'm starting to toe the line between too much. So today- that's right- I said no to shopping. Instead I came home. I'm going to look up a Macbeth summary, proceed to reading Macbeth, and go to my Italian lesson and be there EARLY. And yes, I already did the homework in French class.

So that is my little victory over the lazy little me inside wanting to share a good few hours of English slang.

Love Grace.

p.s. But I didn't say no to a quick salad at Jody's house right after school. Her house is always stocked- I'm not kidding. And it was pretty funny, we are so used to eating delicious Italian bread with every meal we were looking all over for it. We ended up substituting with these like hot dog bun things. We were so disappointed with them. I even said "This tastes American".